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American Equity Investment Life Holding Co – ‘10-Q’ for 6/30/19 – ‘EX-101.DEF’

On:  Thursday, 8/8/19, at 3:22pm ET   ·   For:  6/30/19   ·   Accession #:  1039828-19-56   ·   File #:  1-31911

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  As Of               Filer                 Filing    For·On·As Docs:Size

 8/08/19  American Equity Inv Life Hold… Co 10-Q        6/30/19   74:13M

Quarterly Report   —   Form 10-Q   —   Sect. 13 / 15(d) – SEA’34
Filing Table of Contents

Document/Exhibit                   Description                      Pages   Size 

 1: 10-Q        Quarterly Report                                    HTML   1.87M 
 2: EX-31.1     Certification -- §302 - SOA'02                      HTML     32K 
 3: EX-31.2     Certification -- §302 - SOA'02                      HTML     32K 
 4: EX-32.1     Certification -- §906 - SOA'02                      HTML     26K 
 5: EX-32.2     Certification -- §906 - SOA'02                      HTML     26K 
12: R1          Cover Page                                          HTML     77K 
13: R2          Consolidated Balance Sheets                         HTML    114K 
14: R3          Consolidated Balance Sheets (Parentheticals)        HTML     48K 
15: R4          Consolidated Statements of Operations               HTML    105K 
16: R5          Consolidated Statements of Comprehensive Income     HTML     54K 
                (Loss)                                                           
17: R6          Consolidated Statements of Changes in               HTML     58K 
                Stockholders' Equity                                             
18: R7          Consolidated Statements of Changes in               HTML     28K 
                Stockholders' Equity (Parentheticals)                            
19: R8          Consolidated Statements of Cash Flows               HTML    158K 
20: R9          Significant Accounting Policies                     HTML     33K 
21: R10         Fair Values of Financial Instruments                HTML    250K 
22: R11         Investments                                         HTML    505K 
23: R12         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate                       HTML    234K 
24: R13         Derivative Instruments                              HTML    180K 
25: R14         Notes Payable and Amounts Due Under Repurchase      HTML     40K 
                Agreements                                                       
26: R15         Commitments and Contingencies                       HTML     28K 
27: R16         Earnings (Loss) Per Share                           HTML     60K 
28: R17         Significant Accounting Policies (Policies)          HTML     87K 
29: R18         Fair Values of Financial Instruments (Tables)       HTML    228K 
30: R19         Investments (Tables)                                HTML    505K 
31: R20         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Tables)              HTML    227K 
32: R21         Derivative Instruments (Tables)                     HTML    185K 
33: R22         Notes Payable and Amounts Due Under Repurchase      HTML     39K 
                Agreements (Tables)                                              
34: R23         Earnings (Loss) Per Share (Tables)                  HTML     60K 
35: R24         Significant Accounting Policies (Narrative)         HTML     27K 
                (Details)                                                        
36: R25         Fair Values of Financial Instruments (Narrative)    HTML     58K 
                (Details)                                                        
37: R26         Fair Values of Financial Instruments (Fair Values   HTML     79K 
                and Carrying Amounts of Financial Instruments)                   
                (Details)                                                        
38: R27         Fair Values of Financial Instruments (Assets and    HTML    123K 
                Liabilities Measured on a Recurring Basis by Fair                
                Value Hierarchy) (Details)                                       
39: R28         Fair Values of Financial Instruments (Assumptions   HTML     64K 
                Used in Estimating Fair Value) (Details)                         
40: R29         Fair Values of Financial Instruments                HTML     40K 
                (Reconciliation of Beginning and Ending Balances                 
                of Level 3 Liabilities) (Details)                                
41: R30         Investments (Narrative) (Details)                   HTML     37K 
42: R31         Investments (Schedule of Fixed Maturity             HTML     61K 
                Securities) (Details)                                            
43: R32         Investments (Fixed Maturity Securities by           HTML     82K 
                Contractual Maturity) (Details)                                  
44: R33         Investments (Net Unrealized Gains (Losses) on       HTML     36K 
                Available for Sale Fixed Maturity Securities                     
                Reported as a Separate Component of Stockholders'                
                Equity) (Details)                                                
45: R34         Investments (Credit Quality of Fixed Maturity       HTML     44K 
                Security Portfolio by NAIC Designation) (Details)                
46: R35         Investments (Gross Unrealized Losses on             HTML     97K 
                Investments, By Category and Length of Time)                     
                (Details)                                                        
47: R36         Investments (Changes in Net Unrealized              HTML     43K 
                Gains/Losses on Investments) (Details)                           
48: R37         Investments (Net Realized Gains (Losses) on         HTML     56K 
                Invesments, Excluding Other Than Temporary                       
                Impairments) (Details)                                           
49: R38         Investments (Other Than Temporary Impairments by    HTML     52K 
                Asset Type) (Details)                                            
50: R39         Investments (Cumulative Credit Loss Portion of      HTML     36K 
                Other Than Temporary Impairment Recognized in                    
                Operations) (Details)                                            
51: R40         Investments (Cumulative Noncredit Portion of Other  HTML     45K 
                Than Temporary Impairment Recognized in Other                    
                Comprehensive Income and Change in Fair Value                    
                Since Other Than Temporary Impairment) (Details)                 
52: R41         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Narrative)           HTML     52K 
                (Details)                                                        
53: R42         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Summary of Mortgage  HTML     34K 
                Loan Portfolio) (Details)                                        
54: R43         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Mortgage Loan        HTML     65K 
                Portfolio Summarized by Geographic Region and                    
                Property Type) (Details)                                         
55: R44         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Allowance for Loan   HTML     42K 
                Losses Rollforward) (Details)                                    
56: R45         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Impaired Mortgage    HTML     30K 
                Loans on Real Estate By Basis of Impairment)                     
                (Details)                                                        
57: R46         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Mortgage Loans by    HTML     31K 
                Credit Quality Indicator) (Details)                              
58: R47         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Schedule of          HTML     39K 
                Financing Receivables Past Due) (Details)                        
59: R48         Mortgage Loans on Real Estate (Schedule of          HTML     59K 
                Impaired Financing Receivables) (Details)                        
60: R49         Derivative Instruments (Narrative) (Details)        HTML     39K 
61: R50         Derivative Instruments (Fair Value of Derivative    HTML     42K 
                Instruments as Presented in the Consolidated                     
                Balance Sheets) (Details)                                        
62: R51         Derivative Instruments (Change in Fair Value of     HTML     42K 
                Derivatives Included in the Consolidated Statement               
                of Operations) (Details)                                         
63: R52         Derivative Instruments (Derivative Call Options,    HTML     60K 
                Notional Amount and Fair Value, by Counterparty)                 
                (Details)                                                        
64: R53         Derivative Instruments (Interest Rate Swap)         HTML     38K 
                (Details)                                                        
65: R54         Derivative Instruments (Interest Rate Caps)         HTML     40K 
                (Details)                                                        
66: R55         Notes Payable and Amounts Due Under Repurchase      HTML     37K 
                Agreements (Schedule of Notes Payable) (Details)                 
67: R56         Notes Payable and Amounts Due Under Repurchase      HTML     35K 
                Agreements (2027 Notes Narrative) (Details)                      
68: R57         Notes Payable and Amounts Due Under Repurchase      HTML     29K 
                Agreements (Repurchase Agreements Narrative)                     
                (Details)                                                        
69: R58         Commitments and Contingencies (Narrative)           HTML     28K 
                (Details)                                                        
70: R59         Earnings (Loss) Per Share (Schedule of Earnings     HTML     58K 
                (Loss) Per Share, Basic and Diluted) (Details)                   
72: XML         IDEA XML File -- Filing Summary                      XML    143K 
11: XML         XBRL Instance -- a2019-06x30ael10q_htm               XML   4.17M 
71: EXCEL       IDEA Workbook of Financial Reports                  XLSX     99K 
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 9: EX-101.LAB  XBRL Labels -- ael-20190630_lab                      XML   1.71M 
10: EX-101.PRE  XBRL Presentations -- ael-20190630_pre               XML   1.04M 
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73: JSON        XBRL Instance as JSON Data -- MetaLinks              359±   580K 
74: ZIP         XBRL Zipped Folder -- 0001039828-19-000056-xbrl      Zip    346K 


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